Stress! What does it mean to you? Relationship problems, financial difficulties, deadlines, commuting, raising a healthy, happy and productive child, or just plain housework. These are all demands on you, physically, emotionally and financially.
Stress is the tension you feel when there are more demands than you and your body can handle. These pressures may be from your work, relationships, home, or other responsibilities. Stress is like an out-of-balance scale-the pressures on one side of the scale outweigh the coping resources on the other.
Eustress:
This stress is a good stress and happens in pleasant or rewarding situations. This healthy stress can energize an athlete to win a competition. It can animate an actor to give a stirring performance. Stress may fire up a sales person for a speech that closes an important business deal.
Distress:
This is the negative stress that most people talk about when they talk about stress. There are 2 different kinds of distress, Acute Stress and Chronic Stress. Acute stress is intense stress that appears after an event is over. For example, imagine you are pulled over by the police for a traffic violation. Your heart races, you sweat, your breathing gets faster.
Chronic Stress:
Chronic stress is a less intense stress than this, but it lasts for a longer period of time. For instance, imagine the pressure from a large credit card debt or the conflict from a bad relationship. You may notice headaches, difficulty sleeping, and mood swings. These physical changes take a toll on your health and well-being.
Either too much or too little stress can be harmful. Too many cause’s health and relationship problems. Too little can cause boredom, lack of performance, lack of productivity and carelessness. The key is finding the stress level that is ‘optimal’ for you.
Any demand you see as a problem or issue can cause you stress. These demands are called stressors. Most stressors fall into one of these categories:
Stress causes your body to make physical and chemical changes. When you are under stress, your body’s first reactions are a rise in blood pressure, quicker breathing, increased perspiration, quicker heartbeat, and dilated (enlarged) pupils. All your senses go on high alert.
Physiological changes are part of the fight-or-flight response. This reaction is instinctive, it protects us from threats to our survival. Scientists believe that the fight-or-flight response is an ancient survival mechanism. It is probably left over from times when animals, including humans, were often threatened by physical dangers. In the fight reaction, the body gets ready to attack an intruder. The flight response probably is a reaction to fear, and the body gets ready to run away or hide.
In today’s world, we are more likely to experience threats to our emotional and mental well-being than our physical safety. Still, the body reacts in the same way—it speeds up to produce energy and get ready to move. The body stays keyed up until the danger passes. Then it returns to a state of calmness.
However, if high levels of stress continue, the body stays activated. During this activated process, the body releases adrenalin and cortizol into the body. This gives the body energy and aggression to take whatever action is necessary for the situation at hand. This adrenalin and cortizol are released by the body naturally through physical activity or exertion. If the body is not able to perform this physical activity, the adrenalin and cortizol can build-up in the body. This can cause a problem. When the body no longer has the energy to adapt, it becomes exhausted. This damages the body’s organs and can even eventually cause death.
Stress has been associated with many health problems. Some of this is high blood pressure, heart trouble, asthma, fatigue and muscle pain. If stress is not relieved, it can cause emotional problems as well such as anxiety or depression. Stress can also hurt your relationships with friends, family, and co-workers.
New research now shows that females may have a different way of coping with stress. Females seem to react with the tend-and-befriend response. In stressful situations, women tend the young and seek out support from others to deal with stress.
The hormone oxytocin is secreted by women and men as a response to stress. When oxytocin is combined with other female hormones, like estrogen, it works against stress. Oxytocin has a calming effect, reduces fear and decreases the physiological signs of stress in the fight-or-flight reaction. The tend-and-befriend response may have developed because women are the ones who usually are responsible for nurturing and caring for their offspring. Women are also more likely than men to look for support from others in all types of stressful situations, from work hassles to relationship problems. This does not mean that women are immune to stress, or that they never experience the fight-or-flight response. It does mean that women may respond to stress by reaching out to others.
Major problems can be avoided if symptoms are identified early. You probably already know some of them—headaches, tense muscles, knotted stomach, sweaty palms. Symptoms may also be psychological and interpersonal, like feeling moody, having trouble concentrating, loss of memory or arguing with others.
Some of the signs of serious problems are:
Stress management:
How a person deals with Stress is more important than the stress itself. Coping is what you do to deal with stress. Some major life events or demands are out of your control, but you can still take charge of how you react. A healthy lifestyle can help you prevent and manage stress. Using stress management practices in your life daily will keep you healthier and happier both physically and emotionally. Below are the lifestyle guidelines that will help you deal with you stress.